Few people become true overnight successes in any industry, even writing. In fact, Debbie Macomber often jokes that it took her “twenty years to become an overnight success”.

At some point, you will be rejected. It’s a fact of life and while rejection is an inevitable part of writing, there are a few tips and tricks to ease the pain a bit.

First, use rejection. Perhaps the editor pointed out a few flaws that you didn’t see like your hero’s motivation is lacking or your mystery is too obvious to readers. If so, take a step back. Criticism is never an easy thing to deal with.

Once you’ve considered the editor’s words, take a look over your manuscript. Is it possible the editor was right? Even if the editor was incorrect, never argue or threaten an editor. It’s not professional and it only ends up hurting your career.

But if you feel the editor’s comments had merit, rework your article.

If you received a form rejection, re-submit your work to another publication.

Yes, send that manuscript right back out the door. I know it hurts. Yes, I know your ego is bruised. Send it out anyway. There are many editors out there whose desks your work hasn’t crossed yet. Keep sending your writing out.

Thirdly, look at the silver lining. I know one writer who believes if she was rejected it just means that wasn’t the agent or editor for her. Like being on a train, try to take rejection as a sign that you’re going in the right direction, but you just haven’t found the right stop yet.

Next, recognize that rejection often has little to do with talent or ability. Sometimes, it’s just a matter of timing. For instance, an editor may have purchased an article on the exact same subject just days before your submission hit her desk.

Finally, while waiting to hear back on one project, be working on at least one other article or project. Keep working constantly. Don’t pin all your hopes and dreams on one article or essay.

There’s plenty more to write about. Don’t let rejection stop you. Use it as a stepping stone to help you on your journey to success.

“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is to always try just one more time.” – Thomas Edison

Debra Weiss, editor of Today’s Teen Writer, is a freelance writer living on the East Coast. When she’s not writing or editing, she can usually be found at her website.